Hadith 203

Bulugh al-Maram

Book 8: Marriage
Hadith 203
وَعَنْ طَارِقِ الْمُحَارِبِيِّ قَالَ: { قَدِمْنَا اَلْمَدِينَةَ, فَإِذَا رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَائِمٌ يَخْطُبُ وَيَقُولُ: .‏ } رَوَاهُ النَّسَائِيُّ, وَصَحَّحَهُ اِبْنُ حِبَّانَ, وَاَلدَّارَقُطْنِيُّ 1‏ .‏
"يَدُ اَلْمُعْطِي اَلْعُلْيَا, وَابْدَأْ بِمَنْ تَعُولُ: أُمَّكَ وَأَبَاكَ, وَأُخْتَكَ وَأَخَاكَ, ثُمَّ أَدْنَاكَ أَدْنَاكَ"
Tariq al-Muharibi (RA):

We arrived at al-Madinah when Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) was standing on the Minbar addressing the people and saying, "The hand of the giver is the upper one, and spend first on those who are dependent on you: your mother and father, your sister and brother, then your relatives in order of their closeness to you." [Reported by an-Nasa'i. Ibn Hibban and ad-Daraqutni graded it Sahih (authentic)].